The Donkey of One Who Hates You: Help Even an Enemy
Commandment #167 (help-unload-animal-burden) covered the general perikah obligation from Exodus 23:5: help unload a struggling animal. Commandment #197 focuses on what makes Exodus 23:5 unique: the specific word “sonecha” — “one who hates you.” Not a neighbor, not a stranger, not a friend — someone who hates you. The Torah does not permit you to walk past your enemy's struggling animal because of personal animosity. The Talmud (Bava Metzia 32b) goes further: when both an enemy's and a friend's animals need help simultaneously, the enemy's takes priority — the very difficulty of the commandment is what makes it the greater one.
One Who Hates You: The Singling Out of the Enemy
The word “sonecha” (one who hates you) is precise. The Talmud (Pesachim 113b) defines who qualifies: a person who witnessed your sin alone and hates you for it — someone whose animosity is known. The commandment is thus not abstract — it addresses the real emotional situation where your personal enemy's animal needs help. The verse's command is to overcome that emotion: “you shall not leave him with it; you shall rescue it with him” (ta'azov imo). The “with him” is notable: you help alongside your enemy, not instead of your enemy. The commandment does not allow you to do it for him while avoiding contact — you must work together.
The phrase “azov ta'azov” (infinitive absolute: “rescue, you shall rescue”) uses the same doubled form as “haqem taqim” in Deuteronomy 22:4 (Commandment #173) — intensity and completeness required.
The Enemy's Animal First: Priority and the Yetzer Hara
Bava Metzia 32b presents the definitive ruling: if you encounter your enemy's animal lying under its burden AND your friend's animal walking freely without help needed, you first help the enemy's animal — not the friend's. But even when both animals need help, Bava Metzia 32b rules: the enemy's animal still comes first. Why? Because the mitzvah of overcoming your yetzer hara (evil inclination) — the urge to walk past your enemy's animal in satisfaction — is a greater commandment than helping a friend's animal where no such self-conquest is required. The commandment is not just about the animal; it is about the moral work of overcoming hatred.
Proverbs 25:21: “If your enemy is hungry, give him bread to eat, and if he is thirsty, give him water to drink.” The same principle — active care for an enemy — appears throughout wisdom literature as a mark of moral greatness.
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